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The Energy Pathway to Reclaiming Choice

By Caroline D'ay / 7 October 2025

If you’d like to understand – and actually experience – the process of stopping repeated behaviour, I’d love to invite you to The Energy Pathway to Reclaiming Choice, a free 4-hour Masterclass spread gently over four days. This is suitable for someone who’s doing the behaviour, or it could be a friend or relative who’d…

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The Energy Pathway to Releasing Addiction

By Caroline D'ay / 16 September 2025

Imagine the freedom of life without addiction. Waking up without that nagging urge, without the shame of chasing losses, without worrying about your business or your finances, without the secrecy. Picture the lightness of having your money, your time, and your choices back in your own hands. Being free from addiction is about gaining a…

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Why “Reinstating Factory Settings” Isn’t the Answer to a Chronic Health Condition – and What to Do Instead

By Caroline D'ay / 8 August 2025

It’s such an imaginative idea: You’re living with a chronic condition, and someone suggests you “reset” and go back to your previous, healthy self. How tempting is that? But here’s the truth: you are not an AI device to be restored to a previous setting. You are much more than that: You are a beautiful,…

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Excitement Versus Overwhelm: The Secret to Staying Energized and Focused

By Caroline D'ay / 5 August 2025

Excitement is food and drink to many business owners and executives. Whether embracing new opportunities or diving into big challenges – the thrill of the chase, the satisfaction of solving a problem – it washes over us, filling us with energy and exhilaration as we ride the wave of possibility. We like excitement. But over…

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“If You Can Get Up, It’s Not ME”: Busting the Myth About Chronic Fatigue Syndrome

By Caroline D'ay / 31 July 2025

For decades, a dangerous myth has circled the world of chronic illness – that if someone can physically get out of bed, they can’t possibly have Myalgic Encephalomyelitis (ME), also known as Chronic Fatigue Syndrome. This couldn’t be further from the truth.   Let’s Start with the Reality of ME ME/CFS is a neurological, post-viral…

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New course: ‘Liberation’ 5 day Masterclass

By Caroline D'ay / 14 July 2025

“LIBERATION” MASTERCLASS Dissolve Overwhelm, Ignite Your Energy & Feel Great ** Special summer offer: join the July Masterclass for FREE **   Are you tired of feeling drained, overwhelmed and stuck in a cycle of anxiety & stress? Imagine instead waking up every day with energy, confidence and a clear mind – ready to take…

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ADHD burnout: a lightbulb moment

Crossovers Between Chronic Fatigue and Neurodivergent Burnout

By Caroline D'ay / 20 May 2025

The AD of ADHD stands for Attention Deficit. However, that’s not been my experience of the hundreds of adults and children with whom I have worked. Instead, I call it Attention Difference because they are paying attention, loads of attention, to all sorts of things, all at the same time. As an example: • Places…

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are your decisions limiting or enabling?

Decisions – limiting or enabling?

By Caroline D'ay / 19 May 2025

I’m Hoping for a Limiting Decision My dear husband lost his sight 50 years ago and I spend my life dodging round him as he moves at speed assuming nothing’s in the way – walls, doors, me etc. Imagine the nifty footwork that involves! Well, last summer he decided to jump over the Lavender Bed…

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How’s your Thought Hygiene today?

By Caroline D'ay / 16 April 2025

No, it’s not a buzzword — it’s the hidden force behind whether you attract what you want… or exactly what you don’t. Thought Hygiene is about keeping your mental space clear, focused, and aligned with the future you’re trying to build. It’s not magic. It’s mindset. And it’s powerful.   Here’s the deal: The difference…

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what does living the dream mean to you?

Are you living the dream yet?

By Caroline D'ay / 5 April 2025

Achieving your dreams is more accessible than you might think. You might have an idea of how your life could have been – or wish it could be – but you don’t know how to make it so. In fact, your life now might be the opposite of how you hoped it would be when…

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