Managing feelings

ADHD burnout: a lightbulb moment

Crossovers Between Chronic Fatigue and Neurodivergent Burnout

By Caroline D'ay / 20 May 2025

The AD of ADHD stands for Attention Deficit. However, that’s not been my experience of the hundreds of adults and children with whom I have worked. Instead, I call it Attention Difference because they are paying attention, loads of attention, to all sorts of things, all at the same time. As an example: • Places…

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are your decisions limiting or enabling?

Decisions – limiting or enabling?

By Caroline D'ay / 19 May 2025

I’m Hoping for a Limiting Decision My dear husband lost his sight 50 years ago and I spend my life dodging round him as he moves at speed assuming nothing’s in the way – walls, doors, me etc. Imagine the nifty footwork that involves! Well, last summer he decided to jump over the Lavender Bed…

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how good is your thought hygiene?

How’s your Thought Hygiene today?

By Caroline D'ay / 16 April 2025

No, it’s not a buzzword — it’s the hidden force behind whether you attract what you want… or exactly what you don’t. Thought Hygiene is about keeping your mental space clear, focused, and aligned with the future you’re trying to build. It’s not magic. It’s mindset. And it’s powerful.   Here’s the deal: The difference…

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what does living the dream mean to you?

Are you living the dream yet?

By Caroline D'ay / 5 April 2025

Achieving your dreams is more accessible than you might think. You might have an idea of how your life could have been – or wish it could be – but you don’t know how to make it so. In fact, your life now might be the opposite of how you hoped it would be when…

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adult ADHD

Are You A High Functioning ADHD’er?

By Caroline D'ay / 20 March 2025

Are you frustrated by the high standards you set yourself? See if this sounds familiar: it started out as one task but ended up being forty more things on your to do list; all of them needing doing now!  Then you found you couldn’t think straight because there were so many things to do and you…

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