As a business owner, Director or Manager, imagine an employee booking an appointment to see you, and when they arrive, they say:
“I’ve got to resign because I’m a caring for my parents now, and I can no longer do that and fulfil my job too.”
And imagine you being able to say to them, with confidence, “I can help you with that!”.
Just how fantastic would that be?
Because employers can really help employees in this position – not with the caring itself, but with the organisational and interpersonal skills to manage both roles.
Let’s start with Stress. Stress is a physiological response to mental or emotional pressure which is triggered when specific life conditions overtake the person’s specific ability to cope. Those aren’t necessarily the same conditions that would push another person to the brink but working-carer stress has extra dimensions which can wreak havoc.
What we’re talking about here is the additional levels of stress that working-carers have to contend with, and which go way beyond the average employee’s normal experience. It’s not so much work/life balance as work/life management that they need to focus on. Triggers can come from 5 areas:
I remember, many years ago when I was first married, I got myself very stressed trying to be a perfect new wife at the same time as holding down quite a senior post. My manager at the time said something like “I don’t pay you a good salary to be tired – get a cleaner!”. It was harsh – and I’m sure it wouldn’t be allowed now – but it made me look at what I was doing and the choices I was making, and I made some changes. With new choices the problem became manageable.
To maintain their career, working-carers need extra skills to be able to cope; resourcefulness, planning, time management. They need to check in with their values and seek alignment; they need to make sure their priorities are working for them in their life; they need to rediscover ‘flow’.
We have a specialist workshop called Enabling Working-Carers that does all of this (other courses are available). What we find is that every working-carer is discovering afresh the things they need to put in place to temporarily rework their life decisions. The workshop is like a ‘user guide’ for working-carers.
You can get a description of the course here.
Statistics suggest that 1 in 8 of us are now caring for a relative. If you have a number of working-carers in your business, then training is a brilliant option because not only do they learn new skills, but they discover other people in the same situation. If you have only a few working-carers you may find it more appropriate to offer the coaching option; same material but on a one-to-one basis. We even offer train-the-trainer so you can deliver the support whenever you need to.
One more thing we’d like to share is a copy of our free guide. This is a useful guide for all carers, or that you might share with employees: The essential 5 things to put in place when you become a Carer.
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